Friday, January 25, 2008

Benefits Of Nlp Training - What You Stand To Gain?


Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a method that enables us to modify our behavior, feelings or thought problems by means of our trained brain. NLP is a powerful tool to benefit the people who desire to seek self-improvement and growth.


Today NLP is being used in business, counseling, building relationship, career development and personality development. NLP is used in groups as well as independently on individuals.Neuro Linguistic Programming was first coined in the early seventies by John Grinder, an assistant professor of linguistics, and Richard Bandler, a student of psychology.


As a program of self development, NLP meant for modeling human behavior. It was resulted from deep research on the relationship based on observable patterns of human activities, linguistics and neurology.The main function of NLP is to replicate various forms of human interaction including relationship, behavioral pattern, motivation, memory and communication.


This kind of training can be useful to know how the brain works and helps people who want to improve their communication skills.The people who are into sales and marketing, management and presentation, performance, training and coaching, negotiation and meditation can benefit greatly from NLP training.


The function of NLP is to examine how our brain works. Whatever we do, in terms of some neurological patterns, gets recorded in our brain. As we repeat the same thing over and again that becomes our habit and that gets reflected in our behavior becomes fixed. It will have unhappy results if we repeat these neurological patterns for years. Let me illustrate this point by taking one example.


It will always give pleasure if we replace our habits, such as over-eating or smocking, with a new pattern. By replacing such old thinking and behavioral pattern with new one, we can achieve such positive results.NLP training can be acquired through various workshops, seminars, online learning programs and other comprehensive educational courses. NLP Training curriculum is tailored according to the needs of life coaches, business trainers and mental health practitioners alike.NLP training courses can be useful to those want to develop their communication, leadership and motivational skills.


NLP training is also very important in sports. The clients are made aware of the things they're doing by their coach who teaches them to concentrate on their game. This leads them to better performances.


NLP training can benefit to those who want to improve their health. According to some health experts, there's a link between thoughts, behavior and health. NLP practitioners prefer to work within therapy. It is useful for individuals to help them change their limiting beliefs, habits and behaviors. It helps people to deal with emotions and assists individuals to find meaning in life by setting reachable well-formed goals. One of the best advantages one can have is to improve himself by getting rid of habits or vices he dislikes.


Thursday, January 24, 2008

Find Success With Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)


If you ask yourself "what stops me from getting whatever I want from life?" you may find that the answer you give yourself is very revealing.

Was your answer: your partner, your parents, not enough money, not enough time, not enough love, bad luck or simply fate? All of these answers are basically saying that the reason you are not more successful or more fulfilled in one or many areas of yourself, is due to circumstances outside of your control.


What NLP or Neuro-Linguistic Programming teaches us is that in order to influence our external world we have to understand how our thinking affects our internal world, ie our unconscious. By understanding this we can then bring the circumstances within our control and change them.


Our conscious mind actually holds very little information at any one time, and research has shown that we can hold only 7 plus or minus 2 chunks of information in our conscious mind at any one time. Which, as you can appreciate, isn't a whole lot of data.


Meanwhile our unconscious can receive billions of pieces of external information at any one time and process them with no effort. The unconscious mind is awake even when we are asleep and continually processing information.


From this we can see that what we tell our unconscious is of vital importance, as whatever we tell it to do - it will do. But what are we telling our unconscious to do?


If you say to yourself - "I deserve to be rich", but the programs running in your unconscious mind, which have evolved as you have grown up respond with " you - you loser, like that's ever going to happen, you never succeed at anything" you aren't going to get very far along the road to riches. Therefore in order to progress these programs need to be changed.


It is never going to be enough to listen to something that tells you 'what' to do - you need something that tells you 'how' to do something. This is where NLP comes into its own, as it not only tells you, but it shows you how to achieve whatever you want from life and how you can achieve your goals. It is practical information that often marks the difference between what succeeds and what fails.


NLP stops you running the same old programs in your mind and getting caught in a loop of failure. Your conscious mind can tell you a million times that you need to shape up and achieve success but this just won't mean anything until your unconscious mind comes on board. Once the two are aligned, the world is your oyster and success in any area of your life - whether it be money, work, business, relationships, you name it - can be achieved. NLP is a fascinating subject and the more you learn the more you want to know, but more than this it offer a practical blueprint for change. Whatever you want, the only path to achieving it is to change, not the external circumstances, but yourself. The rest then falls into place.


Tuesday, January 8, 2008

The Three Keys To Healthy Living


Healthy living boils down to three major areas: Exercise, eating right, and mental health. Your ability to exercise regularly, eat the right things, and have a positive mental health can keep you from having problems in with the "big three" health issues - cancer, heart-disease, and diabetes.


Please note, as in all things health-related, always consult with a physician before beginning any kind of diet or starting out on a new physical routine. You may have a condition that needs monitoring or additional considerations related to any kind of diet or exercise you might want to undertake.Exercise is critical to a healthy lifestyle.


Reports show exercise can reduce your risk of cancer, heart-disease, and diabetes. Studies have shown you need to exercise for at least 30 minutes at some percentage of your maximum heart rate.There are many ways to exercise. I've found walking for 30 minutes during my lunch break at work to be extremely beneficial.


You could swim, ride a bike, or go to a gym for an aerobic workout.Exercise will help you keep your weight down. Being overweight may cause many problems including the "big three" mentioned previously. In fact, there is a definite link between obesity and Type 2 diabetes.


Exercising at the proper percentage of your maximum heart rate is a definitive way to keep your heart in shape and prevent heart disease.Eating right is also an important part of healthy living. A healthy, balanced diet is crucial for maintaining a healthy body and the right body weight. You need to be especially careful to watch your nutritional intake while dieting. Many sources recommend taking a daily vitamin supplement to ensure you get the necessary nutritional elements you might miss because of your dieting.


The latest food pyramids are now recommending 6 to 11 servings of breads, cereals, grains, rice, etc. per day. They also recommend 3 to 5 servings of vegetables, and 2 to 3 servings of fruits. Likewise, 2 to 3 servings of milk-based products (yogurt, milk, cheese, etc.) and 2 to 3 servings of protein-rich foods such as meat, poultry, nuts, eggs, beans, etc.Many studies have related various fruits, vegetables, and even herbs as anti-carcinogenic edibles.


Similarly, you'll find eating more fruits and vegetables will help in keeping your weight down (reducing the risk of diabetes), and lowing your cholesterol levels (reducing the risk of heart disease).Your mental health, like your physical health, is important to your overall well being. A poor mental state can affect your overall health and even your physical health in negative ways. As many as 1 in 4 adults in the United States of America can be diagnosed with some sort of mental illness.One such mental problem is depression. Professionals have associated depression with suppressed immune systems.


Studies have shown that 25% of all cancer patients suffered from depression before getting cancer.Forty percent of people with heart disease have some sort of depression. Links have been found connecting depression to diabetes and Alzheimer's disease.Anxiety is another mental health problem affecting physical health. People with anxiety are prone to increased blood pressure leading to heart disease, decreased immune system function, increased asthma attack frequency, increased stomach problems, and weight gain.


While you want to make sure to consult with a medical professional concerning any mental health issues you may have, you'll also find that maintaining a proper physical condition will assist in keeping a healthy mental condition.


For example, studies have shown exercise and eating right will positively affect your mental health.If you're interested in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, then you should ensure you do things to improve you physical and mental health - exercise regularly, eat right, and make sure you consult with your health professional as necessary.


Friday, January 4, 2008

NLP Practitioner Training- An Insight Into The Course Contents




People Building is an NLP and Hypnotherapy Training company based in South East England specialising in courses in Hertfordshire, Bedfordshire and Buckinghamshire at NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner and Hypnotherapy Diploma level. All of our trainings are accredited by appropriate awarding bodies.
In this article, I am going to discuss some of the course content and explanation of the NLP Practitioner course.
An understanding of the Mind- Body connection – In short, when you think about something, chemicals are released in your body. The chemicals that are released will affect your mood and therefore how your body is feeling, for example, if you think about something that makes you really nervous, you could end up giving yourself an upset stomach. Likewise, the body is connected to your mind, so if you exercise your body, happy chemicals are released and your head feels a happier place to be.
Understand and read body language – In NLP we read body language using calibration. This means that we first get an understanding of what a particular gesture, posture of expression mean, then when we later see the same person making that gesture, posture or expression, we know that they are probably feeling the same way as when we saw them do it last. Calibration is important because it stops us from generalising about what a person is feeling. For example, we may generalise that when a person crosses their arms, that they are being defensive, but they may just be feeling chilly!
NLP Presuppositions which positively influence your world – These are a list of convenient beliefs that encourage you to consider the impact your communication has on others, and how to treat every result and behaviour as positive, as far as is humanly possible.
Enter someone else's world for greater understanding of others – Often we are so trapped in our own idea of life, that we forget that others are constantly having a completely different experience of life to the one we are having. NLP teaches us how to understand and respect another person's perspective.
Communicate effectively – Everyone is experiencing the world in a different way, and part of the reason why this happens is because people use their senses in different ways. Some people rely more on their vision, others on their hearing. When a person has a sensory preference this impacts upon the way they understand information and the way they communicate. Using NLP techniques we are able to get onto another person's wavelength and communicate more elegantly.
Have better rapport and quickly gain a connection with others – People like people like themselves, and when you have good rapport with someone, you unconsciously mirror each other's physiology. By understanding how to use this skill, we are able to quickly gain rapport, and break it when we no longer wish to have it.

How to use NLP Anchoring in every Conversation




The new commercial you are saying bad things about to your friend, the way a lady across the room plays with her hair, in song texts like:"We all live in a yellow...", or the sound that your mail program makes when you get a new email.
They are there all the time, for the simple reason that they are the reason why our brain works the way it does work.
The question is: How can you use "free floating anchors" as John LaValle calls them?
How can you practice the NLP(tm) technique of Anchoring in everyday life?
Easily.
E.g.: You are having a conversation with a friend via Skype. You talk about this and that, suddenly your friend bursts into laughter about a think you said that you didn't even intent to be funny.
There is anchor created right there, by the way you said it, the way you spelled it, the way you took breaks in between the phrases.
You can test it by trying to reuse it. Not to often of course, as you might collapse it if over doing it , but you can reuse it over and over easily.
Try it out! And one you are at it, go and think about other ways you can use this technique to make conversations more fun for you and everyone else around you, and also in which other ways you can use it.




How To Apply NLP Techniques To Explode Your Profits On Ebay - Part 1



This is the first of a two part article. Introduction Wouldn't you like to hypnotize people into purchasing your auction items? Or what about if you could indirectly influence, sway and control people's decision-making process, without them even realizing it? That's what NLP is all about. NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming, a form of hypnosis based on hidden, subliminally persuasive language patterns either spoken or written. One famous example is Tony Robbins, a master in motivational success and personal growth training, talks using NLP naturally without him even thinking about it. If you listen to him talk in seminars, on television or cassette tapes, you can become quite inspired and NLP is at the heart of his courses and seminars. He uses NLP to help people change their lives by showing them how to use NLP for personal growth, life management, motivation, combat depression and much more. There is nothing illegal or unethical about using NLP to sell your products, in fact it's something many large companies do all the time. By using NLP, all you are doing, is simply presenting your products in the most convincing, compelling, and psychologically-effective, way possible. And, of course, that gives you an incredible advantage over your competitors on ebay. Applying NLP in your auction titles Using NLP in your auction titles can be a little difficult since you only have a small amount of space. However, it can still be done. One way is to have an auction title that deals with a state of mind you want people to have. This technique is called Thought Binding. It simply means having your prospects recall what it's like to be in the mood you want them to be in. Thought Binding enables people to be much more receptive to any information about you and your products you want to throw at them because you've set up and bound the direction of their thinking and emotional processes. And the beauty of it is they will never catch it because they aren't used to hearing or looking for it. Let me give you an example. There are many sellers on ebay selling CD and software items that will supposedly make you X amount of dollars each month by reselling. Instead of having an auction title such as "My CD will make you RICH", you could have a title like "Make ebay your career with my CD, 4K a month, I did" Another way is to play on people's curiosity. A title such as "Click here or my dog will die tonight" is meaningless yet I guarantee you will have a lot of people clicking on your ad which is the purpose of your auction title, to get people to click on your auction title and check out your offer. Remember, your auction title is the doorway to your offer on ebay. It is the door people will choose to go through or not, based on your auction title. Creativity and ingenuity will help. One Tip, if you run out of good ideas for your auction title, go flip some magazines and newspapers. Pay special attention to the classified ads, see which ones grab your eyeballs and model your auction title after it. You could do the same thing with television commercials or radio ads etc.

Reframing with NLP For Enhanced Happiness



I used to work for the Independent National Newspaper in Canary Wharf, London. I can remember in the build up to Christmas, my department was having a large and expensive new computer system installed because the newspaper was being relaunched, it was when Andrew Marr and Rosie Boycott were becoming joint editors, I digress….


The system was being put in just before Christmas, but it was a massive task, with numerous issues & overruns. As Christmas approached, there were still a number of teething problems, which led to stretched relations between the system supplier and the newspaper staff. At one meeting about the integration of the system, my director had been trying to get more time investment from the installation company, only to be told that their people weren't going to be available on Christmas day.


My director was frustrated and furious, asking "What are you doing that's more important than sorting out our system!?" Without hesitating, the guy from the installation company said "Delivering Christmas hampers to the elderly." The impact was immediate; everyone in the room started laughing & my director joined them, realising that he'd perhaps been a bit unreasonable.


Everyone knew that the story about the elderly wasn't true, but that didn't matter – the statement had changed his perception of the situation, instantly, & he started behaving more reasonably.


Changing the contextual frame: There was an advertisement for the Guardian newspaper, which showed a set of still photographs arranged in a particular action sequence. The photographs showed a large framed man with very little hair on his head, wearing jeans and boots, running along a pathway with a real purpose. In the first frame he is running towards an elderly lady; in the second frame, you see him knock her violently into the street; in the third frame you see him make his escape, obviously and seemingly this is another thug terrorising the elderly.


Then, when you turn the page, you are presented with some wider angle shots. In the wide-angle shots, you see the elderly lady casually walking beside a building that has building works being carried out upon it and where a cement mixer is about to topple from a scaffold. An alert pedestrian notices the situation and heroically runs towards the lady, pushing her clear of the building area. A moment later, the cement mixer falls to the ground in the spot where the lady was standing.


The initially perceived 'thug' has in fact saved her life. By changing the frame, the creators of the advertisement had changed the context of the man's actions. Suddenly, what was perceived as typically criminal then became valiant and altruistic. His actions were transformed in a moment as they were reframed.


I am sure you know of many other examples of this. One of the presuppositions of NLP and something that fascinates and tests me, is that every behaviour is useful or valuable in some context. Upon learning and reading about this in the embryonic days of my learning, I did do my best to do the opposite! I wracked my brains for things that I just could not reframe. Of course, I could not do so for long. It's just a matter of stretching your brain and finding a context that makes it useful; I have not always found this easy. This process is referred to as context reframing.


Every behaviour is useful in the right context: Now here is a challenge for you. For any behaviour, no matter how frustrating or apparently without use or value, see if you can find a context where it's useful.


Once you find such a context, a subsequent act of presenting the behaviour in the new context is reframing it. If it was originally a behaviour that was treated very seriously or was problematic, you may then also want to think about adding humour or a playfulness in the way it is re-presented; Firstly, identify a complaint, either about yourself or someone else, a simple structured to begin with, for example; "I'm too [x]." or "She's too [y]." (Eg. "I'm too impatient", "He's too selfish.", "She's too messy.") Next up, ask yourself "In what contexts would the characteristic being complained about have value and/or usefulness?" Thirdly, create several answers to this question, and then craft it into a 'reframe'. For example: "I'm too impatient" Example answer: "I bet you're quick-thinking in an emergency." "She's too messy" Example answer "She'd be good to have around if we were trying to make our home look like it had been burgled." (I don't like to be too serious!) "He's too selfish" Example answer: "We've had so many problems with people not taking care of themselves, it's often good to make sure you look after yourself to be in a better position to help others ." Now, I know these are a bit lame with some of my own tongue in cheek-iness added, but they don't have to be that useful at this stage; it's more important that you give yourself the freedom to be creative so your brain gets the pattern of what you're doing. What's more, when you have to do that and develop better reframes for yourself, your learning is far more comprehensive than if I were to spoon feed you responses to regurgitate.


The next step is to come up with reframes for any complaints that you (or others) have about yourself. This can be a lot of fun if you do it with someone else. (ie. you say "I'm too [x]" then they generate reframes.) By the way, the example of "I'm too sexy" as in the 90s Pop Band "Right Said Fred" chart topping hit is not really appropriate ;-) When reframing something someone says, rapport is important (otherwise reframing can seem like a very focused & deliberate attempt to annoy someone.)


If you present someone with a reframe, ensure that you have a good level of rapport with them, best start with friends and/or family (assuming that you have rapport with them!) Fifth, once you get the hang of it, start looking for opportunities to use context reframing each day, starting with the less challenging ones. In a business context for example, one of the most powerful ways to use reframing is when people have objections (whether you're selling a product, a service, an idea, or yourself.) reframing is a gentle method of working with someone as opposed to having to sell which many people are uncomfortable with. When you reframe someone's objection, you can remove or alter its power. I once read the objection "I'm worried – What if I train my staff and then they leave." The response: "Even worse, what if you don't train your people and they stay." When you discover and create a way to change the context of someone's objection, it alters the way they perceive it. This has been know to be an extremely effective way to overcome objections entirely.


Finally, for these initial steps of reframing, write a list the objections you get most frequently in business or complaints made in your life and generate a number of context reframes for each one. Then, look forward with a sense of anticipation to the next time someone offers that objection. Please bear in mind that you are opening up options here, not covering things up, if a particular problematic issue is occurring, sometimes it may not be appropriate to just reframe. Both my Grandparents on my fathers side were 80 two years ago and we had celebratory family gatherings.


As I walked into one of the celebrations I asked the standard question "So, what's it like waking up on your 80th birthday, Grandad?" To which he replied "Better than not waking up on your 80'th birthday". Now, I'd like to start playing with 'content reframing.' If a footballer kicks the ball into his team's net, it's called an "own goal", but if a soldier accidentally shoots one of his fellow soldiers, it's called "friendly fire" (Sounds kind of cuddly, doesn't it? But you would not want any coming your way.) George Orwell's 1984 had plenty of examples of content reframing (eg. the ministries of peace & truth) that live on today in many forms (a peacekeeper missile, anyone?)


So, content reframing involves changing the meaning of something. Right, to develop this further, follow this procedure; identify a complaint a complaint or issue with the structure "I feel [X] when [Y] happens." (Eg. "I feel angry when he does not help" or "I feel frustrated when I make mistakes") Next, ask yourself "What else could this (Y) mean?", "What else could this (X) mean?" or "What else could this situation mean?", or ask "How can this (X) or (Y) be interpreted? Then, you can come up with several answers to these, and then create a 'reframe'. For example: "I feel upset when I see the mess these kids have made" Example answer: "It's good that they can be 'in the moment' without worrying about a few things being out of place." Alternate example answer: "A little untidiness is a small price to pay for happy children." Another example answer: "The fact that it's messy means they're expressing their creativity."


Obviously, if you were to offer these reframes to someone who is annoyed or frustrated, I would suggest that it would be a good idea to get in rapport with them first and of course to select your words carefully. As with my previous examples, these aren't the most amazing reframes in the world, but they don't have to be that useful at this stage; it's more important that you give yourself the freedom to be creative so your brain gets the pattern of what you're doing. Now, you can come up with reframes for any complaints or issues that you can identify for yourself or others. This can be a lot of fun (honestly!) if you take turns doing it with someone else. (ie. you say "I feel [X] when [Y] happens" then they generate reframes.) Then, once you get the hang of it, start looking for opportunities to use content reframing each day.


For spreading good feelings around and helping people to lessen the easy natural way that they can sometimes get "bogged down" in the trivial. Depends on what you consider trivial though, be careful and thoughtful. Once again, in a business sense, content reframing is also very powerful for dealing with objections of all sorts.


For example, a reframe I sometimes use when someone objects to the price of consulting with me (I am sooooo expensive!) is to respond with something along the lines of: "If you are after a cheap consultant or therapist, then you are right, I am not for you. If however, you want to invest in your future then maybe I am. If your child needed a serious operation, would you look for the cheapest surgeon? Then why look for the cheapest way to make changes in your life that are important enough to seek help with?"


Again, I do have my tongue planted in my cheek as I write that riposte, however, I am sure you see where I am coming from here. Then finally, list the objections you get most frequently & generate a number of content reframes for each one. Then, look forward with a sense of anticipation to the next time someone offers that objection. Remember to keep rapport with people when doing this!


Or in jargon-free speak, relate, empathise, connect, get on with. Good luck with your reframing and creating more harmony.